My family disburses money the purchasing homes girlfriend not to let my mother live 2010-04-08 15:12: 29 origins: The NetEase woman forum with pasting 0 handsets reads the news I have also thought a minute hand, but was my female friend has flowed over two times to produce for me, each time quarrelled the severe evil when waited, she took this to come to pinch and make a tearful scene, dies without a sickness by each hand finally.
After I and girlfriends are 80, when university in together continuously to the present. Graduated for 4 years, although some savings, may compare to surge upward the house price, we looked to be popular sigh.
Girlfriend family in countryside, to study also to owe many debts for her, after the graduation these years, together for her also near 3W debt, but also subsidized in her family 2W to repair the house, funded her younger brother 1W marriage.
In together 6 years, very natural to discussed that the marriage discusses marries, in my family the condition is good, takes 40W to come out to subsidize us to purchase homes to get married, although in the girlfriend family is one cent money cannot take, but I love her, I also thought that purchases homes is man\’s matter, has not haggled over anything in this question. But when I proposed that hopes my mother and we stays together, facilitates the attendance, the girlfriend actually resolutely opposed.
In my family the situation is very special, the parents relate not well, the father recent 10 years year to year outside work, every year at home time insufficient half a month, for do not affect me, have not divorced; But these ten years, my mother is a person pulls to grow up at home me, specially in I study and work for 8 years, my mother is a person at home; She initially to consider my study life, almost did not have her entertainment life, the friend was also few, therefore for these years was alone and forsaken; Now my mother as a result of this kind year to year the lonely life condition, has become wooden, responds slowly; My Uncle doctor even said that my mother has the senile dementia incipient symptoms.
Remembers my mother each time, I am grieved, thought if one do not repay and is filial piety her well, is really in vain the manner. But the present, my girlfriend is actually not willing with my mother to stay together. We have quarrelled, has made, I have also asked her, but cannot vacillate her throughout.
I also think to bid good-bye, but my girlfriend, for I wind through two times to produce, quarrelled each time was fierce, she takes this to coerce and to make a tearful scene, therefore bid good-bye each time dies without a sickness.
At the same time suffers great hardships, for a lifetime for my mother, at the same time is the girlfriend who I injured cross, I really am worried, sad, whenever quiet at dead of night time, person smoking of silently, wipes the tear.
I do not know me should what course to follow ……
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